Short Hair Is Femine Too !!!

 

 

Recently I cut my hair to a pixie cut, I’mso glad I did because I love it but part of me was so scared to cut it thinkingit would be taking a part of my identy with it. So stupid !

I remember when I was in year 8 at school and all the girls had long beautiful hair and I wanted to be like them but I also saw my older sister and how lovely she looked with short hair. Anyway so I decided I wanted to be different (everyone already thought I was) I wanted something that made me that way but also made me feel unique in a good way. So all my hair came off and I went for the pixie cut for the first time . I loved it and finally felt good , that was until I got to school, I was the only one in the year who had short hair. I was classed a a boy and even more strange then before and suddenly something I was so proud of turned into a destruction . I promised myself I would never cut my hair again that short thinking my identy was held there. 

Girls had long hair , girls I wanted to be were the perfect weight if you were a girl you had to be a certain way . A way that I wanted to be while still being me , where was the balance?

As I grew older and the fashions changed and I saw more and more people with short hair, different styles and my hair grew out and I would colour it going blonde , multi-coloured going only to the shortest of a bob cut still to scared thinking who would I be .

When I came out and started to go to bars I then had another thought in my mind ,

Where did I fall on the LGBT spectrem ?

If I had short hair was I still femine ?

All these things running though my head but I knew I still wanted to cut my hair see if things had changed since I was in school.

Five years later and I am finally comtable to feel like my identity is not attached to who I am on the outside but the inside , I can still be a femine , wear dresses etc with a pixie cut . Thinking how stupid I ever was to think that way.  Identidy is still such a big issue for people . How people see you and so on .

But who you are isant focused or held by hair or style and that is something i’ve learned .

 

xx

PRIDE 2017

Wake Up Time !!

So another year of Pride in London has been and gone and it was another amazing day . The sun was shining and I was luckly to spend it with my mum, dad both sisters and friends incuding one the most special person Claudia and her  4 month old son Ethan. The little cutie stole the day with his very charming outfit .

Were ready to go !! BFF’S FOREVER (HAPPY AUNTY)

Three girls and a baby !! We’re gonna take on this town

BFF’S and a baby

On his way !! BABY PRIDE 

Stopped by Soho Firehouse 

Baby firefighter 

Ready to strut my stuff

My baby sister with baby Ethan

Sisters ❤

MMmmmmmmm gotta get my energy up !!

Mama and baba

soho getting busy

Everyone is out for Pride 2017

On the way home to tired to wait to sleep

Three sleepy lions

My three babies ! Saying goodbye is hard 😦

 

My little sister had her rainbow set ready to decorate anyone and everyone !   Every year my dad and younger sister come down to London to celebrate, Ruby was 10 when she first came dressed head to toe in rainbows gliter and paint and my dad in a rainbow tie. I am very lucky to be able to share this day with my family each year I’m aware not everyone has this so I am very thankful xx

 

 

RIVERDALE !!!!!!

 

 

 

So unless you have been hiding under a rock for the last couple of month you proberly heard of the new TV series Riverdale. Based on the charecters of the Archie Comics it follows the lives of the people in Riverdale and the teenagers who try to solve the murder of one the Jocks Jason Blossom who goes missing after a boat ride with his twin sister Cheryl.

Running along the lines of programmes like Veronica Mars , Pretty Little Liars and Gossip Girl a group of friends find there way scooby gang themselves to the truth with the twists and turns of there possible families involvement .

I am not going to do a episode by episode guide of this programme as it has already ended and is all on Netflix. The 13 episode are like catnip to a person like me and I have managed to stay clear of any gossip about it on the internet for the entirety of it airing . Which in the twitterverse world is quite hard . But as of last night I binged watched it all and OMG !!!!!!

WELL LIKE I SAID CATNIP 😀

To anyone who likes a good murder mystery with teen angst or just someone who is a fan of the original charecters like the wonderful Betty and Veronica and Archie I would recommened it and as a person who is quite good at solving puzzuls in TV I have to say I didnt see a good few of them .

Although I have to say the very last 2 minutes of the last episode well I saw that coming a mile away (sorry writers).

With charecters like Jughead , Josie and the pussycats , mean girl Cheryl all thats left to say is go binge RIVERDALE !!!!

Shadowhunters – The Guilty Blood 2×01

So Shadowhunters is back and I am so happy , we were promised a darker version and it has certainly taken us there.

SO this is Episode 1, The Guilty Blood

This time I’m doing things a little different

So team Shadowhunters and downworlders are on the hunt for Jace. So Izzy, Alec, Clary, Magnus, Luke and Simon all trying to use their contacts to find him.

Clary is having mummy issues big time !!! Joslyn is awake but as the episode goes on we see she may not have Jace’s interests at heart . DAMN MUM WHERES YOUR HEART AT.

Is there trouble in paradise for MALEC? In 2×01 it seems Alec is taking all his frustration out on Mangus …. So happy he decided to say sorry . Oh Alexander !!

Say hello new guy in charge !!!!  So the clave has put  new character Victor Aldertree in charge, taking over from Lydia Branwell who’s been demoted . He also kicks out all downworlders  before putting everyone in lockdown and he soon gets down to interviewing each of the characters. And then he decides ……. 

DEAD OR ALIVE !!!!!!!!!!!

 

DAMN YOU !!!

Simon goes back with Luke to hide from the rising sun. The other werewolves are not to happy and put poor Simon in the boat shed for the night. I love seeing Luke and Simon scenes though. What about you guys?

Valentine and Jace.

After Jace tries to escape with a fake glamour of Clary Valentine chooses to torture Jace but later lets him go for some creepy father son bonding , (I’m still in the opinion that the father and son is not true)

Now as for Clary and Joslyn , Clary manages to escape the lockdown and goes to ask Luke and Simon for help by the docks . Sadly mummy dearest follows her and after locking Clary and Simon in the docks Joslyn tracks down Valentine and Jace and tries to shoot Jace !!! 

This was a great Clary and Simon scene though very sweet.

Valentine gets shot and protects Jace and the both disappear into a portal.  

What did you think of this week’s episode?